How do I stop ppl from treating me like crap everywhere I go?

by admin on February 21, 2011

No one is liked by everyone and no one ever has been. Doesn’t that suck, esp when I’m not exempt from that rule. Bottom line: literally EVERYONE has to like me, no exceptions.

Ok so at school, initially, everyone talked to me but this one girl (jessica.) She disliked me from day 1 and that was b4 she knew me. Yet, I saw her be friends with other ppl. So I begged her and tried to pay her money, which she turned down. Angry at being rejected, I cursed out everyone else I saw, esp Jessica’s friends. I was nice to Jessica though. I also screamed obscenities in the coffeeshop and then had a car accident after Jessica turning down my friendship yet again. In the end, I hit and threw stuff alot and got kicked out of school. Everyone ended up ostracizing me.

At Wal-Mart, Emily won’t be my friend. I begged and paid her money only to get written up for harassment. I stood by the fitting room instead of working bc she worked in the nearby dept. When I got a poor 90 day eval for that, I was really angry. I resisted people greeting when I was needed bc I wouldn’t be able to watch Emily. A few months later, I yelled at Melissa and physically assaulted the fitting room pole. I got canned for workplace violence. Most people in my dept ostracized me.

At McD’s, Kyra won’t be my friend. Initially, every single person talked to me but her. Unsatisfied, I incessantly begged her and tried to pay her money. They called corporate on me and told me firmly that such behavior is unacceptable. I treated other coworkers like sh*t and got written up. When my boss said 2 more write-ups and I’m gone, she turned around and I flicked her off. I stared at Kyra on my days off for LONG time and they had me leave the building. Finally, I screamed at my boss in front of customers for an anger outlet and I got suspended 2 weeks. When I returned to work, the ostracism got so bad I quit after another 3 weeks. I lasted 13 months in all.
The only time I could bhave myself is when I don’t run into whoever don’t like me. Because that’s been my pattern. Once I run into whoever don’t like me, however, there gonna be hell to pay.

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    Spindrift February 21, 2011 at 8:31 am

    You need more help than anyone here can give you. You have zero self esteem and act out out of frustration which only drives people away from you, you have unrealistic expectations which are doomed to failure because of your attitude. Get professional counseling.

    IDNSFG818 February 21, 2011 at 8:31 am

    You all need to read her other questions. She has serious mental issues and my deepest sympathy goes to her family. I am sure she has no REAL friends.

    Bob February 21, 2011 at 8:31 am

    You sound like a dolt and I wouldn’t want to be friends with you either.

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