what should i do with this Girl, who comes again & again in my life then hurts me and leaves again, i love Her?

by admin on December 31, 2010

Hi…
i joined this coz i need help….

this is about a girl to whom i met at my workplace….
she is priety & beautiful for me…..
earlier i just see her as a good friend..
but than slowly she started to follow me…

she always complained me that i should not talk to other girls coz she dnt like that… i should give attention to her first when talking in groups…

than one day from one of my friend i got to know that she already have boy friend.. i got hurt and stop talking to her but than she said sorry and said that she dnt want to hurt me thats why she didnt told me so.. but she always wonder. if i were her boy friend….
than she broke up with her bf..

and than again she started to say me things like before….
than she said that she want to b my BEST FRIEND.. and than one day she said that she think we r made for each other & there is definitely something will happen between two of us in future…..

and because of all this i started attracted towards her … and she continued with her lovable words… we exchange messages and long calls.. due to which she made me to propose her…. i madly fall in love with her… moreover she was the first crush of my life and she is the only girl who told me such things in my life…

it took almost a year for me to propose her…. bt she said no… i said OK… but next day i got realised that she is seeing one of my friend who is seneior to me… i again got hurt … and thought how can it b possible as both of them were opposite to each other.. she is tall.. he is short… she is fair.. he is black… she is healthy… he is skiny.. i cried and stop talking to her … i also left my job there.. and joined another firm…

one day she called me and enquire about my life… as i still have soft corner for her i talked firmly… than once again we started to talk each other for long hours… i got know that my friend to whom she was seeing has gone to outstation… and i thought coz she is feeling lonely thats why she is talkin to me… bt i continue to talk her for days than once again she created that love feeling in me and i decided to prpose her once more…

but my bad luck .. the day i selected to propose her and meet her was the day my friend returned back… and again she said me no…
than i stop talking to her…

she only called me when she need help or when she feel lonely or when she need someone to share her feelings…. and when her need become full she stop calling me and even dnt answer my calls… which in turn hurt me a lot… i only cried when i ride my bike.. so that no can know that i cried… my voice cant be heard in traffic….

days gone.. & one day i got the call from my previous firm that they will promote me if joined back.. i accept the offer… but i didnt informed any one about this…

in the meanwhile i suddenly got call of her informing that my friend got in accident.. she was worried about him… and i again thought she only call me when she need me… than we started to call each other informing each other about the friend health.. when he recovered
.. she stop talking to me…

but when i joined back,… she got surprised.. and start talking to me… we work in different building this time..
one day she left the job and went to bombay to her sister for little vacations… she called me from there.. i told her she must b alone in home now.. she said yes but how i know… i know u .. i told her… she called me continuously for two day and suddenly stopped talking… no information for complete one month.. and that i got her call that she is back form bombay…

we exchanged some messages and than she called me that … i believe or not but she LOVEs me in real a lot.. and disconnected the phone…. i got the message than that she is to depressed and drunk the all out liquid.. but her mom seen that and made her to vomit it out… this message made me crazy.. i started crying in alone… but i was unable to contact her.. than i managed to gather the no. of her mom dad… and than only she called me back that she is all right .. nothing to worry… and disconnect the phone…
and never called me back…. and whenever i try … her phone was not available…

than suddenly she called me one day and exchanged small talks… next day she one more time said that she love me… and one day will marry like in movie Jab we met… i said yes it can be possible but we haven’t met for long time… she said that she will meet me one day… but she didn’t… whenever she called me or i called her we only talk about the movie Jab We Met and see each other as shahid kapur & kareena kapur character.. but than she started ignoring me and stop answering my call and than i decided to do full and final this time… i called her but she said that she wil talk me later… this later never come which make me crazy… and i continuously called her till she answered late around 1:30 in the night and than i

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